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Post-Truth: Navigating a World Where Feelings Supercede Facts

by T.M Kayode

I first came across the word post-truth while listening to Pastor Olakunle Soriyan. The term describes a reality that, quite frankly, we’re living in right now: a world where objective facts seem to take a back seat to emotions and personal beliefs. In other words, feelings supercede facts.

Post-truth was named Word of the Year by Oxford Dictionaries in 2016, following a string of political events like Brexit and the U.S. Presidential Election, where emotional appeals, social media soundbites, and misinformation played a massive role in shaping public opinion. This new cultural shift was characterized by an increasing reliance on “alternative facts”—a phrase that entered the lexicon as a way to justify conflicting realities and narratives.

The definition itself sounds straightforward—post-truth refers to situations where facts are less influential in shaping public opinion than emotional appeals or personal biases. But the reality? The reality is so much more complex, and if I’m being honest, it can be downright exasperating.

Living in a Post-Truth World

In today’s world, where we’re constantly bombarded with information (and misinformation), it sometimes feels like common sense has taken a vacation. Conversations—whether online or in person—have become battlegrounds, with each side fiercely clinging to their “truth,” leaving little room for actual understanding. We try to reason with each other, but often it feels futile. It’s like yelling into a void, hoping the other person will finally “see the light.” Spoiler alert: they usually don’t.

So how do we navigate a world like this? A world where facts are often overshadowed by feelings and opinions?

My Thoughts on Navigating Post-Truth

Honestly, I don’t have all the answers—none of us do. We’re all trying to figure this out together, one frustrating conversation at a time. But I do have some thoughts based on what I’ve seen and experienced.

  1. Recognize We’re All Flawed.
    First things first: we’re all human, and humans are flawed. That means we will always encounter differing opinions—some we agree with, others that make us question our faith in humanity. But we need to accept that not everyone will see the world the same way we do, and that’s okay.
  2. Everyone’s Entitled to Their Opinion (No Matter How Wrong It Seems).
    As much as you believe in your opinions, others are entitled to hold onto theirs just as strongly, even when you think they’re completely off the mark. It’s tough, but that’s reality. Not every argument can be won, and sometimes, it’s not even worth trying.
  3. The Only Person You Can Change is You.
    This one’s huge. You have to come to terms with the fact that you may not be able to change someone else’s mind, no matter how well you present the facts. What you can control is how you engage. Shift your focus from trying to “win” arguments to engaging in meaningful conversations. Instead of battling over who’s right, try to foster understanding.
  4. Seek to Win Hearts, Not Just Arguments.
    If the goal is only to prove someone wrong, we’re missing the point. Winning hearts is far more impactful than winning debates. And to do that, we need to exercise empathy. You don’t have to agree with someone to understand where they’re coming from. In fact, sometimes the most powerful tool in navigating this post-truth world is simply being able to say, “I hear you, even if I don’t agree.”

How Do We Ensure We Don’t Fall Prey to Misinformation?

The concept of post-truth may sound discouraging, but it doesn’t mean we’re doomed to live in a world where facts no longer matter. There are ways we can navigate this landscape and push back against the tide of misinformation and emotional manipulation. Here’s how:

  1. Hone Your Critical Thinking Skills:
    Now, more than ever, we need to question the sources of the information we consume. Is it backed by evidence? Is the source reputable? Does the claim hold up to scrutiny, or does it appeal primarily to emotions and beliefs? Asking these questions helps filter out the noise and focus on the facts.
  2. Learn to Fact-Check:
    Before sharing or accepting a piece of information, especially on social media, take a moment to fact-check it. There are several reliable fact-checking organizations, like Snopes or FactCheck.org, that can verify claims. A quick search can save you from spreading misinformation.
  3. Diversify Your Information Sources:
    Don’t rely solely on social media or a single news outlet for information. Expose yourself to a wide range of perspectives, including sources you don’t necessarily agree with, to get a fuller understanding of an issue. A more well-rounded approach to consuming information can protect you from confirmation bias.
  4. Teach Media Literacy:
    We need to equip the next generation with the tools to navigate this complex information landscape. Media literacy should be a part of school curricula, helping children and young adults learn how to assess the credibility of information and recognize biases, both in the media and within themselves.
  5. Learn Research Skills:
    In a world overflowing with information, knowing how to properly research a topic is key. It’s not just about Googling the first result—it’s about diving deeper, looking at multiple credible sources, and understanding the context behind the facts.
  6. Understand Your Own Biases:
    It’s easy to believe what aligns with your own worldview, but recognizing that we all have biases can be a game-changer. By acknowledging your own biases, you can challenge them and remain open to new perspectives.
  7. Promote Dialogue Over Debate:
    In a post-truth world, people are often more focused on winning an argument than understanding different perspectives. We need to encourage respectful dialogue that prioritizes listening and learning over simply being “right.” The goal is not just to change someone’s mind, but to foster understanding and bridge gaps.

Final Thoughts

Living in a post-truth world isn’t easy. It can feel like logic and reason are constantly under attack, and it’s easy to get discouraged. But we have to remember that this is the reality we’re navigating, and like any challenge, it requires strategy, patience, and a willingness to grow.

At the end of the day, we might not always change minds, but we can change how we approach these conversations. We can choose empathy over antagonism, understanding over argument, and most importantly, we can choose to stay rooted in truth—even when emotions and biases try to pull us in a different direction.

So while I can’t claim to have it all figured out, here’s what I know for sure: in this world of shifting “truths,” our best shot at making sense of it all is to keep learning, stay open, and lead with empathy.

Until next time,
Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!